We celebrate mother's day honoring motherhood and the influence of a mother in our society. Since I don't have a mother to celebrate with, I can still remember the moment with my mother when she was still alive. Remembering that moment she hugs and feels the love she has given to me.
I am a mother already so I want to share with you my motherhood experienced. I was exactly in my twenty's when I become a mom. Let me tell you I am not prepared to become a mom nor I prepared for it. Growing up without a mom guiding me I try to find comfort in other people until I met the father of my first daughter and I become pregnant and give birth normally in a house made of bamboo. Yes, normal labor is so painful and the first time to do breastfeeding is also painful. Life is a roller coaster I admit plus I am not financially stable. I am a full-time mom as I know it is the best.
Life is a struggle adding you have a toxic partner. I find myself struggling to dream and preparing for the future. . Yes the relationship ended and being a young woman I did not assume that starting a family is not easy. There are many factors to consider and I learned that later in my life. And I could picture out how was my mother struggling to raise us because I have nine siblings and I am the tenth member of the family.
A full-time mother is the greatest accomplishment of motherhood but nowadays mothers should do multitasking and explore new skills. Being a parent is also a learning process to develop a deeper understanding of raising children. We mothers should read a book to give us insight into raising children because they are born with different viewpoints on the world.
Happy Mother's Day!
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